
Bob and I talked with the trainer's mother, Martha, tonight. Red is not doing well with Sid. He is getting more and more aggressive. He fell down a twice while Sid was riding him, whether trying to throw him off or what, they don't know. But he seems to be clumsy and is self-destructive in the stall. Can we get to the bottom of his troubles? At what cost? Given all his past problems, we have come to the conclusion that Red is not a good prospect for anyone. I can't in good conscience sell him to anyone. So we've decided to have him put down. This is a really, really tough decision.
As I start to tear up, I think about the time he bit me badly, nearly killed our dog, charged at our 8 year old neighbor, kicked me in the groin then charged at me for the kill, broke two of my toes -- how you can't walk in the pasture without fearing he'll attack, how he won't load.
We both love Red. He is beautiful. We've treated him lovingly, trying for more than two years to make him come around, but I cannot bear to bring him home. No one knows the fear I have when I am near him. We have no choice. Red won't hurt anyone else now.
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I talked to Zeke for a minute about how to deal with sparkler's not wanting to leave the arena. A few options to try--work her really hard in the arena and when we go out, let her walk. But I don't have the sides paneled off, so I don't really want to do more than a walk. Another suggestion: when she goes sideways with her shoulder opposite the direction I am asking, try lifting the rein on the opposite shoulder, then pop her on the leading shoulder with a crop. And: put some treats out and make a game of finding treats in different places in the pasture.